Love Letter to Earth-Bound Creatives
Dear Artists, Poets, Actors, Musicians, and Picture-Takers,
These are poor times to be you. With AI, the non-artists, the hobbyists, the untalented and the unskilled, the daydreamers and those envious of our skills can take our tutors, our histories, our images and language, then claim the name of artist without ever having lived the life from which art comes. I say have faith. The word still means something, even if society has become afraid to say what it means honestly.
I am speaking to the artists whose work is the great drive of their lives: the actors, photographers, poets, painters, writers, musicians, and other strange makers who have given years to what they do and have been changed by the giving. A hobby can be pleasant, absorbing, skillful; it can even be beautiful—but it is not the same animal.
The artist has built a life around the work, and the work, in return, has entered the life and altered its shape. It has cost for years: sleep, money, love, comfort, certainty, and sometimes the approval of nearly everyone around you. You have failed at it and returned. You have worked when no one cared, when no one was looking, and when there was no promise that anyone ever would.
Perhaps you knew what you were before you knew the word for it. The world entered you strangely from the beginning and then decided not to remain in its original form. A face became unbearable beauty with light and shadow; silence had a certain kind of weight; perhaps a room composed itself into a picture before you held the camera. For me, a sentence followed me into sleep. Did it for you? How many of us have music living beneath our skin and drowning out the noise?
You noticed the small alteration in a person's voice, the exhausted bird on a wire, the violence of an ugly thought, the strange beauty of a hand resting on a table. Other people went on with their day while you carried these things in your breasts.
This is what I mean when I say the artist and the hobbyist are not the same animal. I do not say this to be cruel, and I will not lie in order to appear kind. A horse is not a heron, and neither is injured by the truth of it. They have different hungers, different instincts, different migrations, and very different ways of surviving winter. The hobbyist may love making something; the artist is altered by the need to make it. Artists are people who take what they do so seriously, with such discipline and for so many years, that the work can no longer be separated cleanly from the person who has made it. This letter is for them.
It is especially for them now, when the word artist is being stretched so thin that anyone who wants it may take it. A person can ask a machine for the appearance of a painting, a photograph, a poem, a song, a voice, and then stand beside the result as if desire and authorship were the same act, without understanding the difference or what that difference means to the artist. They can enter the houses built by dead and living artists, take from their rooms the hard work, blood, sweat, and tears, then rearrange the room and announce themselves as architects—ahh, the big lie.
Yet a machine can only imitate the evidence of a life. It cannot go backward and live one, nor can it spend twenty years teaching a hand to obey an eye, know the private humiliation of failing at the thing one loves most, or return the next morning to the table and piece because it has nowhere else to go. It cannot lose sleep over a line no one may ever read, nor stand before an unfinished work knowing that somewhere inside it is something true that one has not yet become capable of reaching. It cannot give its life to the work because it has no life to give.
So, in these times, Dear Artists, stay inside you. When the cities are overpopulated and you become overwhelmed, revel in nature. Go to the countryside to rehabilitate your senses and dump the ugliness others have placed upon you. Walk until their voices become smaller. Go somewhere no one asks you to explain your face, where your eyes can recover their distance and your body can remember the wind. Be as kind as you are and as short as you wish. Fulfill your desires where you can, make sense because you can.
Quietly snuff out the individuals and situations that exhaust your dreams and voice, that make you question, in all the wrong ways, your own inner compass and beliefs. There is a strange doubt that deepens an artist and also a sort of doubt that merely corrodes one; know the difference. Do not pass your compass around a room and ask other people to tell you where your direction is. Stay on the true love's oath of the creative, who is born somewhat apart and often with different thinking from most.
Do not contort yourself with others until you have learned your own boundaries, your own willingness, and your own desires. Otherwise, you risk being dragged into the poorest of places by those who, no matter how much love and compassion you give, will never change—because then you risk losing your vision, voice and entire self. Some people can take from you endlessly and still call what you have insufficient. Please do not empty yourself again and again to prove the size of your heart, gentle soul.
Guard your heart and head fiercely, because the work requires reserves and the world is full of people and situations that will use them without understanding what they have taken. In this world there are disciplined, passionate, curious people who rise above themselves, and there are people who will need your understanding while making no effort to understand you. Give what is yours to give, but do not let a few poor people disarm your love. As an artist, love is part of you, and part of what you use to make sense of the world.
Always speak the truth softly when you can. Always stand in another's shoes, but never walk so far in them that you lose yourself.
For artists who work among others, you never owe your coworkers or a company your soul. It is all right to do an excellent job and enough to be cordial. A wage purchases your labor; it does not purchase your inner life. You do not have to turn yourself inside out for the comfort, curiosity, entertainment, or approval of people simply because you share a building and a schedule with them.
Most people will never fully understand you, much less like you, and you must not build your life around trying to correct this. Some people dislike what they cannot read, and some envy what they cannot locate in themselves. Envy has many disguises and often arrives disguised as concern, correction, advice, a joke made once too often, or a small rewriting of what happened. You may be told that what you know happened did not happen, that what you see is not there, or that your sensitivity is the defect rather than the instrument by which you noticed the thing in the first place. Keep your compass. You are visionary.
Dear artists, just because people are pulled into your light does not mean you need to be bright just for them. Attraction is not yes, and curiosity is not deep intimacy. You can give a lot and feel little, and even then it is okay that you do. You can love humanity and dislike its company. You can be warm and private, generous and bold without being available, and you can even disappear for a while without having betrayed anyone.
Do not allow complaint to take away your childlike vivacity. There are enough forces in the world trying to make a person dull without your helping them.
Always remain full of yourself and bright. Stay outside the box, because it was built by someone who required straight walls and expected every living thing to fit inside them. The fear of that is not yours to carry. Let go when a person shows they cannot withstand your complexity without trying to punish, simplify, possess, diagnose, or reduce it.
Do not tolerate disrespect, and do not make yourself small to satisfy someone's curiosity. There is a terrible difference between being seen and being inspected, and an artist should learn it early and well. This is your protection against the many wars that will be waged on you by individuals and society.
Most important, stay with the ocean and its birds, the wind that constantly changes but is steady in its mercurial nature. Stay with the cats and dogs, the horses and animals that are just like you: alert, particular, alive to what approaches. Stay with the birds whose wings carry your heart, and that sing just for you and for anyone willing to listen. Stay with the insects that give back what they take. Stay with the sky that is infinite and the ground that steadies your stance and steps.
The natural world does not ask for your soul, but guides it gently into the hours. The ocean does not care whether your work sold, and a horse does not ask how many people follow you. A small animal does not confuse obscurity with failure. The trees and flowers have no committee before which you must defend the strange direction of your growth. Stay there until your senses return and you remember the old proportions: one body, one life, the ground beneath your feet, and above it a sky so large that the opinions of a cruel person and society become what they always were—minor.
Perhaps you have not always been too much. Perhaps, sometimes, you have simply been too long in the wrong habitat. Society is forever praising the creature that adapts to the cage and wondering what is wrong with the one who cannot sing inside it. The living world asks no such thing of you. It does not require you to become less strange before allowing you to belong.
Stay with other artists who remain somewhere inside themselves like children and try. Not childish, but still capable of astonishment; still willing to kneel in the dirt and look closely at a beetle, a broken cup, a sad hour, or a stranger's stance. Stay with those who ask what something is before asking what it is worth, who can spend an afternoon, or a year, or a life on what another person calls useless. Stay with those who know the humiliation of starting again, who can look at another artist's work and feel wonder without immediately wanting to possess the wonder for themselves, and who still have reverence.
Dear artists, you are not talented AI users. You are not hobbyists, and you are not average in your relationship to the work. You are a certain freedom under the skin, a voice and a visionary giving form to what had been overlooked in others. You are the eye that refuses the first appearance of things, the ear beneath the uncertainty, the hand that returns in spite of aches, the body willing to become another life beneath the lonely nights. You are life looking back at itself, never leaving the experience untranslated.
Do not fear their reaction to you. It is not worth folding yourself into something so small that you fail to exist. Find the other strange ones who are still trying. Then go home, close the door, and return to your works and love.
© Marni Fraser
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